Man Cubs Need Their Fathers - Changing marriage laws will deny children what they need desperately. Govt. should not be involved in doing this.

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Man Cubs Need Their Fathers
Kipling’s Jungle Books
ERIC METAXAS
With Father's Day coming up (in the US), let’s reflect on the barest of necessities: kids having a dad in their lives.

One of the biggest worldwide hits of the summer—or any summer, for that matter—is The Jungle Book, Disney’s charming new interpretation of the Kipling classic. Children are eating up this film. But it’s not surprising that the intelligentsia, which once called the book a celebration of British imperialism, are now calling it racist garbage, not to mention politically incorrect.

Ironically, in their rush to condemn The Jungle Book, the critics are missing Kipling’s most politically incorrect message of all: That boys need their fathers, and need them desperately.

It’s a message we should pay particular attention to on Father’s Day, coming up on Sunday.

As Jody Bottum writes in The Federalist, Kipling’s writings for children “derive from his intense feeling of being an abandoned child, sent home from India to live in a boarding school at age five.” Bottum notes, “The subtext of nearly every one of his children’s stories is a boy’s desperate need for a father.” Kipling himself is “so eager for a father that he cannot write about a boy without casting every older male in a father role.”

For example, in The Jungle Books, the story of an orphaned man-cub named Mowglie, we have Baloo the bear, whom Bottom calls a “kindly but learned” father figure. Bagheera, the panther, is another father figure, while the wolf Akela “is father as clan lawgiver.” The python Kaa is “father as source of ancient memory and possessor of mysterious powers.”
We see the same phenomenon at work in another Kipling novel about a fatherless boy, titled Kim. Bottum notes that father figures in this tale include “Mahbub Ali, a Pashtun horse trader, [who] becomes the mature figure of worldliness for the boy, an elderly Tibetan Lama becomes the father of his spiritual unworldliness,” Bottum writes, while “a British officer . . . becomes the father figure who calls the boy to a high political purpose.”

We see echoes and evidence of this need for fathers in modern life. It seems that boys don’t merely feel abandoned when their fathers are out of the picture: All the available evidence reveals that both boys and girls don’t do as well as kids who have a loving father providing a steady presence in their lives.

For instance, family researcher Patrick Fagin of the Heritage Institute notes that “teenagers without a dad around are almost twice as likely to be depressed as teenagers from an intact family.” “They are more than four times as likely to be expelled from school,” and “three times as likely to repeat a grade,” as well as abuse drugs and alcohol. Even more depressing is the fact that kids without dads “are also more likely to have sex before they are married—setting the stage for yet another fatherless generation.”

All of this shows that for dads, spending time with their kids, playing with them, teaching them right from wrong, and disciplining them, is the most important work any man can do.

As for the movie, well, as charming as it is, Disney’s writers don’t seem to recognize what Kipling was doing with the Mowgli stories. For instance, they cast Scarlett Johansson as the python, Kaa, a pretty piece of reverse-sexism.  Bagheera the panther is the only character left to truly represent a father.

If you decide to see The Jungle Book with your own man-cubs, then give them a copy of Kipling’s The Jungle Books to read afterward—or read it to them yourself. They’re tremendously entertaining stories and poems. And be sure to point out to them what Kipling was saying with his children’s books: That boys (and girls) need their fathers, and without them, they are truly lost.

Oh, and to all you dads out there, have a very happy Father's Day. 

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Man Cubs Need Their Fathers: Kipling’s Jungle Books
As Eric suggested, if you're taking your children to see The Jungle Book, point out the obvious in Kipling's fictional story--children need their fathers in their lives. For resources on why fathers are important, check out the links below.

RESOURCES

Life With -- and Without – Father
Rebecca Hagelin | Heritage.org | June 13, 2016
Why Fathers Matter
Heritage Foundation | familyfacts.org
A Child’s Search For His Father Transcends ‘Jungle Book’s’ Racism
Joseph Bottum | The Federalist | May 3, 2016